Building Relationships and the Ministry of Presence
I have been in ministry for twelve years now. Most of that time has been spent working in parish youth ministry. One of the best things about parish ministry is the long term investment in people’s lives. Getting to know not only teens, but families and watching them grow. It is amazing how time and presence can lead to some incredibly life-giving relationships. I still am in touch with so many of these teens and families from over the years, and while I wish I would have been a little better at keeping in touch with more of those beautiful people that I’ve encountered I am ever grateful for those who I have been able to keep in touch with.
As a Catholic speaker it is very different. You go into a parish or event, you spend a couple hours, or maybe a day or two with a community and hopefully inspire and enliven their community. Then, you leave. Sometimes you come back, but most times you don’t. I often felt a bit of guilt going into a community and then leaving with no way of keeping in communication. I would leave a community and feel a longing to keep in touch, to leave behind something to help them continue the journey. Some communities didn’t need that because they had vibrant ministries going on to serve the people, they just needed a little spark or spiritual boost. For some communities, they didn’t have much going on in the way of active ministry for teens or adults. Often, this was the only retreat they got. I often wondered about the teens and adults that I would meet at these events, those who came forward for prayer or wrote to me later. I often wondered how they were, where they were, and if they were still on the journey.
Entering the New Media Age
A year ago I realized that I was missing out on some incredible opportunities to minister and write (which is a long time passion of mine) through a blog. At the time I had no clue how or if it would go anywhere or if anyone would actually read my blog. I wrote a few articles here and there and enjoyed the new found medium. My traffic was of course extremely low but I was finally writing on a semi-regular basis which is something I had wanted to do for some time.
Shortly after beginning to blog I learned more about Twitter and began to utilize it. Within two weeks I was connected with a couple hundred like minded people and my blog traffic began to jump. Aside from the little ego boost that came with a blog with regular followers, the most amazing thing was how I came to see that this new found ministry was helping people and that I was able to minister to people I had never even met before. Through emails I received, direct messages via Twitter and comments on my blog people were reaching out for help, for guidance, and mostly for prayer.
Finally I was doing what I had longed for when I was traveling and speaking – I was building relationships with God’s people even if they didn’t attend my church or live in my area.
The Digital Evangelist
I realized about six months into this “digital ministry” how much impact one could have just by sharing their faith on what Pope Benedict has termed, the “digital continent”. I would post a note on Facebook with one of my blogs, or a recorded talk and I would get an email a few days later from an old high school friend sharing about where they are or thanking me for my faith, or asking me a faith question. I would write a post or post a note on twitter and get a heartfelt response from a person two thousand miles away who said it was exactly what they needed in that moment.
Recently after reading Pope Benedict’s message for World Communications Day which is May 16th, I realized what we who do this “online ministry” are, we are “Digital Evangelists”. We are like St. Paul, Timothy, Titus, Fr. Keno, and countless thousands of missionaries and evangelists who walked this earth to spread the message of the gospel. Only we don’t walk. We tweet, we blog, we Facebook, we chat, we Skype, we podcast, we Ustream, we text, we youtube, we webcast, and the list goes on.
In his message for World Communications Day, Pope Benedict writes, “Priests (and laypeople) are thus challenged to proclaim the Gospel by employing the latest generation of audiovisual resources (images, videos, animated features, blogs, websites) which, alongside traditional means, can open up broad new vistas for dialogue, evangelization and catechesis.”
A couple of weeks ago we posted an article by Todd Lemieux, titled “Why New Media Will Make You Holier”, in which Todd points out that the new or digital media can make you Holier because it offers so many opportunities for information, community, support, encouragement, accountability, and more. Todd is absolutely correct, the new media has provided a whole new opportunity for people to connect with the Truth.
The Problem is that there still is a lot of noise out there. In fact, there is probably one hundred times more noise and false truths available online then real truth.
That’s why the Church needs to rise up and evangelize this “digital continent”. If you are in ministry, or you feel called to ministry and you are not currently involved in “digital evangelization”, then start praying about how God might use you for this great work. This work will not replace the face to face, life-long evangelization that is already going on, but it is needed to supplement it.
We need to rise up and, as Pope Benedict put it, “give a soul” to the “digital continent.”
Stay tuned over the next two weeks as I break open how to be a “digital evangelist”. I would love your ideas and feedback on how you have “walked this digital continent” as well. You can leave comments here or email me.
